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How to make your child feel loved

A family enjoying time togetherThe “pitter patter” of little feet is one of the most fantastic sounds in the world. Any parent looks forward to the hugs, kisses, and special stories that their child has to share with them, yet some parents may worry that their child doesn't feel the same love in return. After all, adults express love very differently than small children do, so it's natural to want to learn how to communicate on your child's level. If you want to be proactive in making sure your child feels accepted, loved, and cared for, there are a few things you can do.
  1. First off, tell your child verbally that you love him. You should do this every day. If possible, tell your child several times a day. There's no reason to wait until birthdays, holidays, or even bedtime to say "I love you." Sometimes simply hearing these words again and again can help your child feel loved and appreciated. Even if your child acts embarrassed by your affections, know that being verbally informed that you care for him and that you value him is important.

  2. Next, make an effort to spend time with your child on a regular basis. While some families may be too busy to spend a lot of time together each day, it's important to evaluate your schedule and determine if there is any spare time you could be spending with your child. Maybe you could get up a little early and eat breakfast with your child before he goes to school or you could stop by his school on your lunch break to eat together. Even taking the time to read your youngster a bedtime story is a very special way you can demonstrate to your child that he is important to you.

  3. Finally, remember to listen to your child when he talks to you. Unfortunately, some parents get overwhelmed or busy and don't always actively listen to their child. It's easy to nod and smile when you're tired and overworked, but actually listening to what your child says is vital in your role as a parent. After all, if you don't listen to the little things your child cares about, how can you expect him to confide in you when something big happens in his life? Listen to your child, ask questions about what he's saying, and pay attention when he needs you.

While parenting is certainly a challenging experience and quite a balancing act, actively taking an interest in making your child feel loved will go a long way in improving his self-esteem, making him feel accepted, and letting him know just how valuable and important he is to you. It's easy for children to become overwhelmed with the world around them, but knowing that they have a safe, caring parent to come home to is one of the best gifts you can give your child.

Copyright © Sarah on NiceAnswers.com 2017

Editor's Note: Here are some additional resource links that you may find helpful in relation to how to make your child feel loved;
 - Establishing positive communication with your child
 - Reasons to tell your child you love them
 - Tips for helping each child feel loved equally
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